How Can I Get My Husband to Be More Interested in Sex? - Women Suffering in Sexless Marriages

Are you suffering because your husband won't have sex with you? Know that you're not alone. Approximately fifteen to twenty percent of married couples are intimate only ten times a year or less. This kind of lack of intimacy places a tremendous strain on the marriage and is one of the major causes of divorce. Many times, the problem is that the husband is the one who doesn't want to have sex with his wife.

Women in this kind of situation often feel that there must be something wrong with them if their husband is not interested in being intimate with them. They feel that they are not attractive, or that their husbands aren't happy with them, or are in some other way undesirable. They don't know how else to account for his lack of interest.

Some common questions these women ask are: How can I get my husband to be more interested in sex? Why doesn't he want sex? Why won't he initiate it? They often feel that his lack of interest is because there's something wrong with them.

The truth is though, that while their feelings are understandable, they are looking at the situation from the wrong perspective. A man's lack of interest in intimacy with his wife is only a symptom of other underlying problems in the relationship. If those problems are resolved, the bedroom problems will go away.

Women who suffer in a sexless marriage should know that they do have the power to change the situation. They can make their husbands interested in being with them and increase his sex drive.